Oh, they will! Then you run into the problem of how to keep quiet during sex! It's almost impossible

Wheee!!! I am SO looking forward to them getting better because even though they were quiet they felt pretty good.

I sometimes have a problem keeping quiet now and have gotten a few envious looks from the next door neighbor lady! Just imagine the looks she'll throw me if we break the windows down! LOL

Oh, Marrena? I wanted to say I enjoy your sense of humor. I am constantly browsing through your book and you sound so... real. As if you were sitting next to me and holding a conversation with me. It's great!

You know, from what is being described, I am certain that I had a vaginal orgasm. It sounds just like what Huntng40s and Marrena said. It was definitely a feeling I've never had before and so different from what I'm used to. I didn't think that's what it was...and my fiance was insistent that I would know if it happened. I just hope it happens again!! I didn't have a slew of them like you, Huntng40s....oh how I wish!!

BTW...I am in trouble because I already can't keep quiet!!

Way to go, MafiaPrincess!!!

Okay, After reading these posts and rereading the gyneflex chapter last night, I think we need to start her summer project early!

Marrena, Can a woman have both a clitoral and vaginal orgasm at the same time?

Well, according to the Drs. Berman, yes, women can have blended orgasms. I don't think that's the norm, however, usually they sort of work against each other, similar to penile and prostate orgasms in men.

Baseball Guy, If you have not done so already, perhaps you might find it worth while applying some very firm pressure to your wife's G spot.

When the book "The G spot" came out in 1982 I could hardly wait to try out the instructions. My wife immediately became multi-orgasmic, sometimes with ejaculations. Wow !!

She had built up only minimal kegal control. A significant factor might be that she had never taken the pill, believing it to be, in the words of Dr Michael Colgan, "chemical castration".

posting at work, I was just seeing the last post yesterday.

Thank you, Hunting4Os. I'm always surprised when women tell me they like the book itself! You certainly picked up on why I wrote it. I stumbled on this and I tried to give it away to the experts but no one would listen to me, so I realized I had to spread the word on my own, but really it's just like a woman telling other women about her best meatloaf recipe or how to get gum out of kids' hair or something like that.

Mafiaprincess, how would your boyfriend know what it feels like? Men! If you really want to hear a man's perspective on developing this ability, I find it interesting over at the Aneros messageboard. The Aneros is a sex toy for men to give them the ability to have the equivalent of vaginal orgasms--in men it's the prostate orgasm, or as they call it over there, the "Super-O." Typically it takes a man MONTHS to develop the ability and at first it's nothing much.

Well, I think he's basing it off his past experiences with his ex-wife. He absolutely could not understand why I didn't orgasm every time and thought he was doing something wrong. I tried to explain the 'typical' female to him but he thought I was just trying to protect his feelings. I think he finally gets what I'm saying but again, if all he knows is what he's familiar with, he wouldn't understand that an 'awakening' period is necessary.

Also, Marrena, I think most of us are so optimistic when we read your book that focus becomes orgasm and not appreciation for what you've done. I've mentioned it before to you, but I'll say again, I am so thankful for your research. Reading the book was so EASY...not too clinical, not too lengthy...I read it in a day!!!