Hello ladies,
I am getting ready to approach my wife about trying the Gyneflex. She has been on the diet for just 3.5 months. This weekend she complained about not having enough sensation because of having three childeren. She can be quite skeptical about things so I would like some supporting feedback to help assure her. She wants vaginal orgasms but right know she only has intense clitoral ones.
Has using the gyneflex improved your sex life and how so? How long did it take before you noticed results?
Any feedback would be great.
Baseball guy

Take a look at my log called "research validation". Marrena touches on this a bit.

I am curious, did she ever have vaginal orgasms? Has your wife noticed any changes since starting the diet?

No she hasn't ever had a vaginal orgasm. She is like you that maybe 3 times per week is all she wants. Says it gets to sore. She had no libido at all before she started the diet and since has had a great improvement. She also mentions more vaginal sensation during sex, whereas she felt almost nothing before. Her orgasms are much more intense than before. We also put her first because her orgasms are MUCH better before intercoure.

Careful what you wish for!

Most of my feedback is in my book. But really it was the whole vaginal orgasm thing that pushed me to do this whole thing, because it really is a nifty ability to have, and I know how to help women gain it.

Hi Baseball Guy,

I do hope your enquiry elicits some encouraging replies. I have been trying to get my
wife to do more Kegal style exercises during the forty or so years we have been
together. She is willing, but her to-do list gets in the way. (Marrena describes this so
well in her book).

I believe that by developing her vaginal muscles a woman is doing the best thing she
can for her man sexually - best by a very very long way.

It is said that women who had this ability used to fetch the highest prices on the old
Arab slave markets where they were designated as “holders”. I would certainly have
paid a lot more had I been in the market!!

I hope to be able to report some progress when, after some seasonal coughs and colds,
my wife can put the Gyneflex through its paces.

I got mine in the post today

I've only used it once so obviously I can't comment on its effectiveness yet, but what I did do was use it while I was lying in the bath. Dandelion/Baseball Guy, maybe you could suggest this to your wives? It might help them relax them, and be useful if they're short of time.

IE,

Please give us feed back after you have been using it a while. My wife is a teacher, I hope to give her a summer project if they ever get out of school. Darn those snow days!

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I have been using the gyneflex for a couple of months -usually 2 or 3 times a week. I still have never even been close to a vaginal orgasm. My tone was already pretty strong though. I am having a hard time putting it all together. I have been trying to intentionally squeeze and release during intercourse and/or during masterbation to see if that will help but have a hard time concentrating on squeezing, remembering to breath, and also not losing my fantasy in my mind that I need to orgasm. During foreplay with my husband or during masterbation I have been also trying to stimulate my gspot either manually or with a toy and do feel like I am getting more blood flow and slightly more sensation but still require clitoral stimualtion to climax. It is a lot of multi-tasking for a gal to do! I try to alternative gspot and clit stimulation hoping that I can at least transition from needing such direct, constant, and long clit stimualation but so far no luck. Even if I feel my climax building and think I might just be on the verge if I stop stimulating my clit it is gone. Will keep trying!!

That's perfectly normal. With me, the two types of orgasms interfere. It's not a clitoral orgasm from vaginal stimulation, it's a vaginal orgasm from vaginal stimulation. The two types of orgasm feel very different and radiate from different places.

Don't concentrate so much on squeezing the Gyneflex, but flexing to pull in, to pull the arrowhead-shaped part up to where it feels good. Of course flex, but forget about how your clitoris feels and concentrate on the vaginal sensations themselves.

...highest prices on the old Arab slave markets...

I felt a bit guilty about makng this assertion without giving a reference. I may have read it in Robert Chartham's "Advice for Men". Anyway I did track down another source on the Internet in case anyone is interested.

http://www.geocities.com/erotobook/ijk-page.htm

Kabbazah - An Arab term meaning 'a holder' and used to describe a woman who has the art of grasping with her vagina. Some women are born with this ability while others can learn it with practice.

Richard Burton recorded that Arab slave dealers charged vast sums for a woman with this ability.

Sheikh Nefzawi, author of The Perfumed Garden, goes so far as to suggest that it is impossible for a man to achieve real sensual pleasure unless his partner applies 'the sucker'.

In some of the most improbable Indian miniature paintings where little or no movement seems possible, or the woman is showing-off by playing a musical instrument while making love, the real point is to demonstrate that she has this ability.

She is in charge, and slowly and relentlessly she is milking her partner's penis with her vagina.

The vaginal and pelvic muscles can be developed like any other.

It is a much more worthwhile pursuit than purely narcissistic muscle training, not only for the intensification of sexual pleasure but to avoid prolapse in later life.

Baseball guy...I think your wife and I have a lot in common!! I do use the GyneFlex and sometimes I don't know why?! At first it was great and always made me ready for sex. Not so much anymore. I find myself wandering in thought or watching Regis and Kelly! No fantasies taking place here. I am frustrated because I was feeling close to what I thought were vaginal orgasms...more sensation, feelings of satisfaction, etc...but never got that big "O" as I do with clitoral orgasms. I don't know if I ever will.

I understand they are very different and right now I feel such intense pleasure when I orgasm. I actually have a friend who says she prefers clitoral orgasms. Sometimes I feel this is a lot of effort and no reward. I am trying to be patient. It means so much to my fiance. I guess from a man's perspective it's an ego thing to want that for your partner. Right now, I just know that I am really frustrated.

Well that is absolutely the wrong reason to do it. It is true that having this ability makes a man feel like his penis is ten feet long, which is why I can't seem to have casual sex anymore but you should be trying for it because YOU want it. For YOU.

I didn't mean to give the wrong impression. I want if for BOTH of us. Believe me, I want it, too. I just think it's becoming an obsession and interfering with just being able to 'let it happen'!

It's hard for me to give advice at this point because my waking mind is usually full tilt trying NOT to think about the very things you should be thinking about to encourage your body to have vaginal orgasms.

My first vaginal orgasm was nothing much, and felt very different from a clitoral orgasm. It was small and muffled. With time, staying on the diet, practice, and much stronger PC muscles, the ability is now very strong and intense. But it sort of springs from an intense physical need to feel a man's penis inside you. My diet should already be increasing that feeling.

MafiaPrincess (and I do have to wonder how you decided to pick that handle. ) I had my first vaginal orgasms not too long ago and I will agree with Marrena- it was 'muffled' and while it felt okay it wasn't a mind blowing event for me. I did notice I felt much more satiated afterwards, though. That the usual congestion from arousal was gone, totally relaxed, and an overall 'good' feeling.

Clitoral O's are more intense, they can be body shaking, hip jerking, dragging my nails down his back type climaxs whereas the vaginal felt more... relaxing, calming, loving. And small.

I'm hoping they get better! LOL