Have no problem at all with my sex drive, because it is extremely high. No problems either with wetness that is never a problem. My problem is I can not reach climax without a vibrator. Have a amazing lover who knows exactly what to do and how to do it, but it is my problem not being able to climax. Wanting to find a way to be able to climax without the use of a vibrator. If you have any recommendations please let me know. He does not have a problem with it, but it makes me feel very uncomfortable not being able to climax without the crutch.

I have a detailed technique for this specific issue in my book. Did you have questions about the technique?

I don't really want to rewrite all of it here, a.) because I'm lazy and b.) because it would annoy my editor. But happy to answer questions about it!

Will be truthful here would love to own your book, but we have been through some extreme financial problems so unfortunately I am not able to get a copy of it. Would be more than grateful to know what the technique is. It would definitely make me feel so much better. Have suffered with this problem for many years, and hoping to finally find a way to fix it.

Teresa,

There is nothing abnormal about 'only' being able to climax with a vibrator or in my situation 'only' being able to climax during foreplay. Many to most women need additional clitoral stimulation to climax. It is only a problem if you feel it is and then you should pursue other methods.

The book can be bought at amazon for $10.00. Some used copies are only $8.00. We could tell you in a nutshell you have probably overused your vibrator so you are not sensitive to other stimulation and to put your vibrator away in a box while you (alone) re-learn how to stimulate yourself to climax but there is more in the book that I think you would benefit from. The price of the book may be be a cost initially, but ask yourself what this issue is 'costing' you now and will in the future if this continues to be an issue in your sex life or your relationship.

Good luck.