I can't have orgasms at all, and never have. I feel like I can come close during sex. My BF is not very confident in general, although I think he's good in bed. I feel like I'm holding back. It feels like I can get more turned on than I have been, and I know that confidence turns me on more than anything. The more turned on I am, the better sex feels. Is my BF's confidence the key for me (Other than your diet)?

Or do I need to be able to orgasm on my own before I ever hope to have an orgasm?

You need to be able to have an orgasm on your own before you can orgasm during sex. Follow the steps I outline in my book for having your first orgasm.

I'm not planning on cheating however, are you saying that no matter how confident the guy, I won't orgasm? It feels real close, but then again I wouldn't know what an orgasm is like

How confident a guy is, no. How experienced a guy is---maybe. A slightly greater chance.

But as I said, to really increase the odds, you need to masturbate. That's what guys do. Every guy has years of hardworking masturbation under his belt before he attempts sex. Why should women be any different?

Please buy my book, it's only eleven dollars on amazon and it will give you specific techniques to help you with this. I don't want to have to repeat myself, my time is worth something.