I started female ejaculating about two years ago, the amount is ridiculous - I completely soak the bed, the sheets, the pillows, the walls.

Seriously

However, I've never had a clitoral orgasm and have started Marrena's diet in the hope that I'll start having these too.

I'm a greedy girl I guess!

Anyone else out there that's like me?

I have interacted with three women online who are able to have vaginal orgasms but unable to have clitoral ones. It's unusual but it happens.

A larger subset of women lose clitoral sensitivity through odd ways of mastubating, rubbing against a pillow or the corner of the bed, etc. Unlike men, where this is a big problem and can cause Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome, in women it can work out because the women can mimic the movements on their partner's hard pubic bone during intercourse.

In your situation I would recommend staying hydrated with electrolyte drinks in addition to my diet, and start off with a strong vibrator like the Hitachi Magic Wand or the Eroscillator. Once you know what one feels like, it will be easier to have one just using your fingers.

Thanks Marrena, just got myself a Hitachi, it's intense.

I have another question for you - do you think there's a connection between adrenal burnout and low testosterone levels?

Of course! The adrenal glands produce testosterone just like the ovaries do. A woman needs healthy adrenal glands and ovaries to have robust T levels, and it's the free T that helps determine a woman's libido.

By "intense" do you mean the Hitachi gave you a clitoral orgasm?

I think I am one of those women that you describe in your book - low testosterone levels, no libido and doesn't understand why people make such a big fuss about sex and orgasms. My last celibacy stint was four years, it really wasn't a problem. I never masturbated during that time either and my friends were amazed that I didn't seem to need any sort of sexual outlet at all.

In your book you describe the clitoral orgasm as being like a sneeze. I think I experienced something like that from the intense stimulation of the Hitachi, but it didn't feel particularly amazing or out of this world. I'm not really sure it felt pleasurable either, the stimulation felt pretty painful and uncomfortable and it got too much for me, there was no way I wanted more.

I also don't think I'm having orgasms when I ejaculate, it is possible to have an ejaculation without an orgasm and I think that is what may be happening to me. Yes, it's fun and horny to gush all over the bed but I can go for weeks even months without doing it and I don't miss or crave the feeling.

Thank you so much for writing the book, I feel hopeful for the first time in years, although at the same time I'm terrified I may be a freak of nature and the diet won't work for me.

Actually from what you describe it sounds like my diet will work well for you. Sounds like a neurotransmitter imbalance to me. Please keep me posted.