Hi Zaneblue, I have been on the orgasmic diet for 4 months now and it's working a treat. I have ordered an eroscillator and have started playing, and a Gyneflex is on its way via a very very slow boat...so hopefully more good news. I'm 35 and never masturbated, well until now. I have clitoral organisms with my husband through oral and finger/dildo play. Increasingly I like more fingers or use of a bigger dildo...perhaps the Gyneflex will help here? I would love to feel the tremble of a vaginal orgasm. So in this pursuit we were thinking of getting a penis extender or penis sleeve to increase the girth of my husband....do you have any thoughts on this, and if so could you recommend anything? sincerely HannahWhy