I often get asked the question what is the difference between a vaginal and clitoral orgasm? I tried to explain it the best I could, at least from my point of view, in my book. But after reading this thread

http://zaneblue.org/eve/forums?a=tpc&s=5361086261&f=888...311013803#1311013803

I decided to post some youporn links showing the different orgasms.

The following links are porn links, I hope I don't offend anyone. If you don't like porn, don't click on them. I find it amusing that the same man is filming all of them, and that he's really turned on by the woman who doesn't orgasm at all, somewhat turned on by the woman who has a clitoral orgasm,

This woman is dead from the waist down:

http://www.youporn.com/watch/41088


This woman has a clitoral orgasm (and has a nice sense of humor):

http://www.youporn.com/watch/62736/

Dang, the woman I thought who was having multiple vaginal orgasms says at the end she didn't orgasm! Clearly I am not a good judge of other women's orgasmic response. I will keep looking.

Here's a woman having a vaginal ejaculation orgasm

http://www.youporn.com/watch/629

I'm going to put back my previous post. Although this woman isn't having vaginal orgasms, this is almost exactly how I have them

http://www.youporn.com/watch/30311

I just have a string of almost continuous orgasms, with a few seconds between. I'm putting that back because I am having a hard time finding footage of women having vaginal orgasms.

This message has been edited. Last edited by: Marrena,

Phew it's getting hot in here!

I used to think that women who did not orgasm were not getting very much out of sex. Since practising semen retention and only Cumming once a month, I have somewhat revised that view. Obviously they would enjoy the release, but I myself have so much fun having sex all month without ejaculating, that I could never go back. I suppose one difference is I'm doing it by choice.

I met at least one woman who could not cum during sex, but she certainly enjoyed it. When she did learn to cum, I would not say it made a huge difference.

Marrena,

Thanks for trying to help me figure this out! I can definitely relate to the reaction of the clitoral orgasm. And yes, I can almost relate to the vaginal one as well. It seems to be an ongoing pleasure rather than a sudden release.

BTW...I was not at all offended. I think most people who are reading your book are open to sex and won't get offended easily.

Thanks again!

Alrighty then....I'm definately clitoral, and now that I see the video I'm pretty sure I am having vaginal. But, I want the other one!!! My husband would be in heaven if he could make me to do that.

I'm glad I didn't offend!

Ejaculation orgasms require very strong PC muscles and lots of practice. Alone. In the bathtub. At least that's been my experience. So keep at the Gyneflex. Women don't have the valve that men do that shuts off the bladder when we ejaculate so unless your bladder is empty, everything comes out. A full bladder makes it easier the first time, so I suggest in the bathtub after a few beers. Use something thin, rounded and very hard, and tap fast and lightly on your G-spot for a long time. You can get acrylic G-spot wands at most quality sex toy stores, usually S-shaped to save your wrists.

Less than one in ten women can ejaculate--the ability is almost entirely dependent on strong muscle tone.

I want an orgasm that will rock my world like that, ejaculation or not! Mine are not nearly that intense but I'm working hard to get there.

I'm just about ready to move up to the 3rd set of Gynaflex(is it blue? I have pink now.) In the meantime, I'll just keep on squeezing away.....

Thanks for posting this Marrena! I definitely have clitoral orgasms, usually intense ones, and I've pretty much always been that way. I feel as though I may be getting close to a vaginal orgasm though. Gotta love the gyneflex!

For my first post here I will try to help out on ejaculation orgasms. My wife will almost always have one if,
1. It is her second orgasm in a row.
2. There is clit stimulation with a egg vibrator and vaginal penetration with penis.

The first orgasm is I would bet just a clitoral orgasm with the vibrator.
But there is penetration at the time.
Not sure if position matters because most of the time it is missionary with legs held high if you get what I mean. It is the easiest for vibrator and penis work.

If anyone has any question please ask. I am trying to learn also.

quote:

Less than one in ten women can ejaculate--the ability is almost entirely dependent on strong muscle tone.

So are you saying that less than one in ten woman DO ejaculate during sexual intercourse or are you saying that less than one in ten woman are ABLE to ejaculate during sexual intercourse?

Less than one in ten women are ABLE to ejaculate.

Hm, So there are 3 kinds of orgasm? Clitoral, Vaginal and G-spot? Or are the last two the same?

And is does a G-spot-orgasm always come with ejucate?

I have only one kind of orgasm and I think its clitoral, but I watched some of the clips above and went on to look for 'real orgasms'. Then I saw a clip and thought, 'thats not a vaginal orgasm, I can do that too! Or is it...??'

It doesn't feel like a (very good) 'sneeze' at all! My vagina does contract rhytmically when I come, it always has. It used to be 3 to 5 contractions, but now I exercise with Gyneflex it seems my 'high' is twice as long and more powerful, so lets say 7-10 contractions. And if I keep on stimulating the contractions go on and on, but I only managed to do that once. BUT I only achieve orgasm by stimulating the clitoris. So its probably a very classic clitoral orgasm, isn't it?

This message has been edited. Last edited by: Hollie Holland,

You are having the regular clitoral orgasm. I'm glad to hear they are stronger!

G-spot orgasms are a type of vaginal orgasm.

Clitoral orgasms do not of course feel like sneezes, otherwise everyone would be sneezing all the time! But in the way they do feel like sneezes, vaginal orgasms feel like shivers. It's hard to explain. Vaginal orgasms come about from vaginal stimulation, and they do feel different than clitoral orgasms.

Thank you for explaining the difference! (once again) I guess women who experience both orgasms understand better, and its hard to explain a feeling to someone who never felt it before. I'm looking forward to understanding what it feels like, haha!

I think I may just be incapable of having vaginal orgasms. I'm on the #6 gyneflex so tone isn't the issue. It's either something mental or some other physical issue. There are very pleasurable sensations going on that weren't there before, even a finger feels really good and a penis feels amazing, but they're not full-blown orgasms. I can have a really strong clitoral orgasm during intercourse as easily as breathing so I really have nothing to complain about, but when you have friends who have multiple vaginal orgasms and one tells you how she had 6 one night it's hard not feel envious.

I should probably refrain from posting when I'm in these fatalistic sorts of moods.

It takes a while for the vagina to wake up. Be patient. Also, if you've got that tone, start working out for pleasure--let your body guide it instinctively in the way that feels best. Also grip on your husband's penis during sex in the same way, what feels good.