Hi all. I'm looking for feedback on the issue of excessive female ejaculation. Perhaps this isn't a 'problem' for many of you, but I'm at the point of wondering if it is normal. This last year my husband finally (after 14 years together) discovered a vaginal "finger technique" which really (and repeatedly) turns me on, but leaves the bed SOAKED everytime! I'm not sure whether I should be thrilled or horrified !? Anyone else know anything about this?

THRILLED !! I love it when my wife does that. For years the vaginal orgasm was considered by many to be a myth put about by disgusting men for their own ends so I am not surprised your husband took so long to discover the technique. It took me just as long! Passion permitting, try placing a couple of thick bath towels on the bed before you start.

Please tell us the technique. Or, is it too graphic for this board?

I just applied firm pressure on the G spot. (Actually I am not convinced I have ever located a specific spot but that does not seem to matter). http://www.infosex.com/g-spot.htm

Incidentally the website advocates 30mins foreplay minimum, but my wife seems to need only 30 seconds - depending on her mood. I wonder what she will be like after completing a whole uninterrupted month on Marrena's diet.

The instruction says 2-3 inches. This probably means some people are confusing the G-spot with the anterior fornix. That could explain why only 30 seconds is needed

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anterior fornix

Aha! Yet another way for women to gain pleasure I did not know about. http://shaktitechnology.com/afs/index.htm

I do not think I have ever placed firm pressure that far in (at least with my finger). Thanks for pointing this out, Fishy. Looking forward to my next opportunity.

Women are built for pleasure. Bathtub sex can be good too for women who ejaculate, if your bathtub is big enough!

I've heard good reviews of the Fascinator Throe - a special waterproof blanket for sex.