Until my wife and I met, she has never had an orgasm, except a few times, during dreams. She was 22 when we met and already had a 6-year relationship behind her. Now she is 26. I'm 31.

She is not prudish. She is very open for sexual things also for "uncommon things".

After we came together, I started working with her on that problem.

She had/has the following problems:

1. VERY low libido!
2. Not a lot of wetness.
3. Cannot orgasm during intercourse, also not with intercourse plus oral or plus masturbation.
4. Pain mostly at the beginning of intercourse.
5. Strong head person. It's very hard for her to let go.

She took therapy. Read a lot of books. Talked to 2 gynecologists, but that didn't help much. She bought a COME-Trainer for training the PC-Muscle.

COME-Trainer: COME - Fit fot Orgasms

For a long time, she didn't feel something during oral sex. That has changed. Vibrator does not work on her. Not yet maybe.

Something like a year ago she started masturbating (which she has never done before, because, there was no benefit in it) with porn. Now she can cum with porn clips on her laptop.

So right now she is starting again with the COME-trainer (which she has had for about 3 years, but almost never used it), using a clit sucker and she started on the Fish Oil.

We are getting the book soon, to get started on the diet.

Is anybody here, who has some experience with the following dietery supplements:

L-Arginin
Damiana
Ginkgo Biloba
Korean Ginseng
Horny Goatweed
Valerian Root
Yohimbe

We also made a liqueur out of some of those herbs and vodka. She drinks a little bit everyday

She takes those in supplements plus Natural Multivitamin.

Any other tips?

Thanks!

Greetings from Austria, EUROPE,

Christoph

Many of those herbs will slow down her orgasm. The only one I would recommend is damiana, make a tea or liqueur. That will help with disinhibition.

If she is on my diet in full, she should not take l-arginine.

When she has orgasms watching porn, is she using the vibrator or using her hands?

My book has a technique for helping women who can orgasm alone also orgasm with a partner.

That device looks good, but as with any muscle-building exercise, the muscles must continually be challenged with increased resistance. That doesn't look like it will scale. If she has mastered that device, flexing it easily, she may want to get the higher levels of the Gyneflex.