I remember you recommended a good book(s) for tips on giving oral sex (to a man) once. What was that again?

This may not be the exact book, but zaneblue has recommended Resurrecting Sex by David Schnarch:

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0060931787/104-2120046...07?v=glance&n=283155

If I recall correctly, the author's name was Paget. There are several titles under that name though, on Amazon. I was wondering if there was a specific favorite especially for improving oral sex skills.

Yes, the Big O by Lou Paget has a great oral sex technique (with tasteful diagrams). Of course different men have different tastes, but it is a terrific all-around technique.

Resurrecting Sex is a wonderful book on sexual dynamics in relationships. Not a sex technique book, but very useful in understanding the emotional and relationship side of sex.

I was wondering if you had ever used the 'pearls' technique. It looks interesting, but maybe I should show the hubby and ask rather than just surprise him with it. Looks like something you'd have to be careful with to avoid pinching anything too hard.