In the several years since I've been trying to get the word out about my diet various places online, I have also picked up some hot tips. For example the strongest vibrator (the Eroscillator), the best position for having clitoral orgasms during sex (the coital alignment technique), a technique for resensitizing clitorises dulled by vibrator overuse, overcoming traumatic masturbatory syndrome, how to find doctors willing to prescribe off-label testosterone replacement therapy to women, the best place for free jelquing techniques to increase penis size (thundersplace.com), etc.

Ask away--I know lots of tips.

OK First question on the new site. I am a very sexual woman and have a lot of sex with my husband. I would say I border on PSA. Ejaculate daily. (A lot) We have daily sex and sometimes more. This is enjoyed by both of us. I have been advised by a doctor to think twice about using any toys, vibrators, dildo's and anything while having sex. This would not be a problem. Also highly suggested that I may want to be cautious in using them too much now because years from now they may lose their importance when he is not that active sexually and I need them. I had been using a vibrator maybe every 10 days when G-spot needs relief. Your call on this please. Love this site.

Toys during sex depends on the attitude of the man and the women towards the toys. If he's open to it and you're open to it, why not.

As for desensitization, that certainly can happen with vibrators. I know it's a very controversial viewpoint, but I am certain it's true for many women. If it gets to the point where it is more difficult to have an orgasm without the vibrator, I suggest cutting back on the vibrator usage. Listen to your body. And dildos another good rule of thumb is to go with the same size or smaller size than your partner.

Of course for women who can't have an orgasm any other way, vibrators are a godsend.

Don't forget rubber sheeting! Comes in very handy for women who ejaculate a lot.

I have never used a vibrator before and would like to try one. However, I have no idea what kind would be best to try. Any ideas? Thanks.

How easily orgasmic are you? For women who have difficulty reaching clitoral orgasm, particularly women on antidepressants, the most powerful vibrator you can buy is the Eroscillator. Very effective, almost too effective for women who can reach orgasm easier.

For women who are just looking for a little something extra I recommend a bullet vibe, used with the Eggstasy Pouch, allowing handsfree use during intercourse.

Hi to all. Any tips for a newly-single (five weeks!) woman about masturbation? My ex and I had a very active sex life and I find that masturbation just doesn't satisfy me. When I use a vibrator I orgasm very quickly and feel that I need more, but unfortunately start to feel uncomfortable after the first climax. When I use my fingers they get tired very quickly!

I'd appreciate your tips. Thanks.

Dial down the intensity of your vibrator, if possible. Or buy a weaker vibrator. When you use your vibrator don't hold it directly on your clit--tease yourself. If possible take your time and approach orgasm and back off a number of times before letting go. Circle the vibrator around to less sensitive parts.

And don't give up on your hand. Using your own hands is the best way to retain clitoral sensitivity so that when you do get back in the game your clitoris recognizes a man's hands as familiar friends.

I never masturbated as a teenager, and only achieved orgasms in my early 20s (I'm 36 now) with a Whal vibrator. I have given myself an orgasm with just my hand, a few times, but they were less about pleasure and more exercises in grim determination.

You mentioned technique for resensitizing clitorises dulled by vibrator overuse - I would be really interested in hearing more.

I used to have a Wahl. Pretty strong too.

The short answer is abstinence from the vibrator, fantasy and practice. Box it up with tape and put it in your basement, and then start reading erotica, watching erotic movies, and spend twenty minutes a day with yourself. It generally takes cutting back to one-seventh your normal orgasm rate to give you enough orgasmic steam to overcome this.

You may find your natural orgasm rate is somewhat lower by hand than with a vibrator. You may also find the orgasms less sharp, but deeper.

Also I recommend women stay hydrated, particularly if they have low blood pressure. Make sure you get enough electrolytes.

I do have low blood pressure (I've had younger nurses call in help to take my blood pressure on several occasions). I usually get my 8 glasses of H2O in a day, but I've never given much thought to electrolytes, hmmmm....

Thanks! "Old Faithful" is getting boxed & shelved!

Very interesting. So far every woman I have come across who has great difficulty having clitoral orgasms has either been on medications that interfere with sexual response, or has had remarkably low blood pressure (including myself). With low blood pressure you don't have to avoid salt, that may help too.

Very interesting indeed. I admit I revel in not having to watch my salt intake, though I don't particularly go out of my way to munch salty foods.

I started taking a women's multivatimin, and a multi-mineral suppliment (for the calcium.magnesium/zinc balance). The only thing I know for electrolytes is gatorade - any other options out there?

Actually, after looking around I think the most affordable and palatble option might be V8!

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