Hi all. I'm looking for feedback on the issue of excessive female ejaculation. Perhaps this isn't a 'problem' for many of you, but I'm at the point of wondering if it is normal. This last year my husband finally (after 14 years together) discovered a vaginal "finger technique" which really (and repeatedly) turns me on, but leaves the bed SOAKED everytime! I'm not sure whether I should be thrilled or horrified !? Anyone else know anything about this?
THRILLED !! I love it when my wife does that. For years the vaginal orgasm was considered by many to be a myth put about by disgusting men for their own ends so I am not surprised your husband took so long to discover the technique. It took me just as long! Passion permitting, try placing a couple of thick bath towels on the bed before you start.
Posts: 50 | Location: UK | Registered: 27 January 2008
I just applied firm pressure on the G spot. (Actually I am not convinced I have ever located a specific spot but that does not seem to matter). http://www.infosex.com/g-spot.htm
Incidentally the website advocates 30mins foreplay minimum, but my wife seems to need only 30 seconds - depending on her mood. I wonder what she will be like after completing a whole uninterrupted month on Marrena's diet.
Posts: 50 | Location: UK | Registered: 27 January 2008
The instruction says 2-3 inches. This probably means some people are confusing the G-spot with the anterior fornix. That could explain why only 30 seconds is needed
I do not think I have ever placed firm pressure that far in (at least with my finger). Thanks for pointing this out, Fishy. Looking forward to my next opportunity.
Posts: 50 | Location: UK | Registered: 27 January 2008
I don't quite know what to say, after about 20 years my wife, who has always been very multi-orgasmic, started to ejaculate.
When this occurs she will ejaculate between a pint and a quart of fluid during a two or three hour session. We end up using four or five beach towels and they are very wet.
She feels this is abnormal, I find it interesting and good for the ego.
However, I cab not understand why it started this late and the volume of ejaculate she has all the time.
Women don't have the valve that men do that shuts off the bladder during an ejaculation orgasm, so she can decrease the volume if she empties her bladder before having sex. I'm sure that ejaculate is mixed in, but at that volume there is some urine coming out too.
Both of us being in medicine are sure this is not urine. Also, the color which is always clear and the musky smell are not at all like urine. It never stains or discolors anything and we all know that most of the time urine has color.
Lastly, she always empties her bladder before activity and sometimes during activity.
Highly orgasmic? Yes. A surprise that this is starting in her early 50's; again, yes.
I have the same thing, it is clear like water. If her bladder is empty ahead of time then it is all ejaculate, but obviously at that volume it is coming from her bladder--there's no place else for it to come.
I get the feeling before a large ejaculation, it's almost like milk letdown when a woman nurses, like something is being drawn out. It's hard to explain.
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